Glad to hear you're OK, J! That's the important part.
I'm thinking it's totally repairable. I did a complete front clip on mine, and it's not all that difficult. However, I don't think yours will need all that. I'm thinking that with the front crossmember getting squished, it might've drawn in the driver side front frame rail just a bit (which pulled in the aprons and caused the fender to distort like that. Honestly, from the pics I'd say you're looking at a frame straightening, new front crossmember, then the rest is cosmetic in the way of a new hood, bumper, valance, grille, and radiator support. Of course the impact shocked the whole unibody, so check the factory lead seams locations (mine had popped lead, indicating a rather severe front impact, I'm sure), and you'll want to get all of the mechanicals checked out before putting it back on road after an alignment. But I think it's all going to be OK.
I mean, pretty much all of the replacement parts should run around $1000-1500, if you go with reproduction pieces, then it's a matter of getting the work done and repainted - I'd wager less than $7,000-8,000 (definitely less than $10K) to get it all back together - especially, if you can tackle some of the reassembly stuff yourself with some help/advice from Mano, if he's available.
Good luck with it, Brutha! I know if any of us were close enough, we'd all be there right with ya to git 'r done! Don't let the insurance company short-change you!