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Well, I am pretty easy going but if you piss me off, it´s usually for good. It will take a while because if I care for you, I will give you some slack, but when it´s over, it´s over.
In your case: Why bother? I don´t believe in that story that if someone slaps you, you turn the other cheek. The guy showed you what he was worth, he made the rules and chose not be on your side. One less to worry about.
Sorry but that is how I think. If you´re my friend, I will do almost anything for you, but if you chose to be my enemy you´re off the map. I will not make your life hard or seek revenge, I will simply not care for you anymore. (Been there done that. Had a guy who used to be my best friend who completely turned on me, ruined my social life, told lies about me and still kept up the friend act towards me. We used to talk about how friends suddenly turned their backs on me and all of the time he was the one responsible for it. That was over 20 years ago. I don´t let it eat me, but I haven´t forgotten.)
And remember: You are not responsible for his cancer, you did not cause it or contribute to it in any way. So it´s not your concern. Care for the ones who love you and are worth it, forget the haters.
My two cents.
In your case: Why bother? I don´t believe in that story that if someone slaps you, you turn the other cheek. The guy showed you what he was worth, he made the rules and chose not be on your side. One less to worry about.
Sorry but that is how I think. If you´re my friend, I will do almost anything for you, but if you chose to be my enemy you´re off the map. I will not make your life hard or seek revenge, I will simply not care for you anymore. (Been there done that. Had a guy who used to be my best friend who completely turned on me, ruined my social life, told lies about me and still kept up the friend act towards me. We used to talk about how friends suddenly turned their backs on me and all of the time he was the one responsible for it. That was over 20 years ago. I don´t let it eat me, but I haven´t forgotten.)
And remember: You are not responsible for his cancer, you did not cause it or contribute to it in any way. So it´s not your concern. Care for the ones who love you and are worth it, forget the haters.
My two cents.